Saturday 6 February 2016

Observation of verbal/non-verbal interaction

Recently, I have attended a wedding dinner of a relative. There were four others, who are strangers to my family, sat at the same table as us. I will be only discussing about one of them, addressing her as Mrs. Chatterbox, since she talked the most. The bride will be turning 21 this year.

To break the awkwardness, one of them started to talk by asking my parent about our relations to the bride. My mum replied, “We are her relatives.” Then, she introduced us to them. Before long, Mrs. Chatterbox started to share her worry for her kids as they want to earn money first and do not want to get married at their age (early 30s). She later asked my sister, who is turning 24 this year, whether she would earn money first or start a family first. I realised that Mrs. Chatterbox's tone changed from a gossiping tone with hand gestures to a slightly formal tone as she leaned forward to display her curiosity. When my sis said that she will rather earn money and not rely on my parents, Mrs. Chatterbox states that my generation would rather earn first before starting a family, and praised her for doing so. While we were eating, I caught a glimpse of her whispering to her colleagues.

Based on the conversation between Mrs. Chatterbox and my mum, I deduced that she is a wealthy married woman who likes to gossip as she talked more than one topic. This blog post length will be doubled if I discussed about the part whereby she talked about her maid and that her mum, aged 80, will nag at her at times. Also, she sounds as if she has more experience just because she is slightly older than my mum.

Edited: 25 March 2016